I was just talking to someone the other night when he said “I bet you are a great kisser…” I just laughed… But then in one of those moments when you have nothing else to do but think about useless stuff… that came back to mind…
Well I actually never been told that I was a great kisser and I have not told a guy he was a great kisser either (or not that I can remember anyway)… But I would probably tell my girlfriend…Â Like sex, I think kissing is
different for every guy… Only 2 that I can remember where bad… One was my very first boyfriend…Â Even though I knew nothing about kissing back then, I was clearly disappointed by his kisses and I was really wondering what was the big deal about kissing a boy!Â Thanks for the second boyfriend that
came along who clarified things for me… that was much much better….
In my opinion kissing is like dancing: the guy has to lead!
A guy asked me once to dance a Lambada at some party…Â and I knew he was a pro and warned him that I had never danced the Lambada one on one like that…Â He could not believed I had never danced a Lambada before!
This guy was an amazing dancer and he knew how to lead and I just followed… and that was amazing, I really enjoyed dancing with him! (and apparently we looked terrific too so I was told lol)
So for instance, if a guy kisses a woman passionately, the woman should be able to respond as passionately… but if he is a bad kisser she will be too… it takes two to tango!
And of course there will always be exceptions to the rules….
But if I hear a guy say that a girl is a bad kisser, I would have to wonder who is really at fault there… lol
Only once I felt the need to tell the guy if he could try to do better… he did… a little… but I suppose he was young….
Not that I care really, but I thought it was quite funny to think about it…
Until my next crazy thought…. Have fun!